[WilltheThrill]

i wish u luck with this situation.

[Onemanzu]

so wait this chicks mom doesn't want her to date cause she is in college??

...

welcome to the real world... DO HER FUCKING HOME WORK THEN TAP THAT!!

... oh and stop tearing up... you are getting down on yourself... its life... it sucks... shit happens... try your hardest and when that isn't good enough try even harder

[smoke-em]

Originally Posted by HMUSN 1FastFox I assume you like being a rebound? because that's exactly what you are going to be.

And what is so wrong with being used mister?

[Onemanzu]

Originally Posted by HMUSN Originally Posted by HMUSN piitb yet?

[Hourofpain]

did anyone miss me burning 1fastfox?

[BWAL09]

i saw it

[1FastFox]

Originally Posted by Hourofpain did anyone miss me burning 1fastfox?

It must not have been that great if you had to ask if "anyone missed it?"

Thanks, Please come agian...

[Cricket]

Thats confusing as hell dude. I had a situation like that. I left her. I got tired of feeling like I was having a run around. Later found out she was trying to get this one dude. She then apologized. Told her to fuck off, and then I had a good day. One of the best days of my life.

Go for it, but becareful. Prepare for the worst, but expect the best.

[97Cobra]

thanks you guys! I got a lot of good advise! I think Im just going to keep my distance and try not to call her... kind of hard when she works with me...

[Drgnracin72]

sux man, hope yall get everything worked up. heres what i would do in the siuation. tell her your done playing games, tell her youd like to be part of her life or whatever and then walk away form the situation. tell her to come see you when she grows the balls to do what SHE thinks is right, not what her mom thinks is good.

it seems like an asshole move, but itll show you have balls and your not gonna stand around and just get pulled along by a leash like a dog. shell come back to you. but when you do, stop calling her, stop texting, let her call you, and when she does to just say hi, kinda just roll away from it like youv got something else to do. shell come around, itll just take some time.

you know i wouldnt steer you wrong so let me know if ya need some more help

[97Cobra]

Thanks Steven! Yeah I know you wouldnt steer me wrong.

[GTblackprodigy]

Originally Posted by 97Cobra Well you guys Im probly not going to be on as much. I have got involved with a young lady whom Im trying to get her to change her mind. She is scared to date anyone at the time because her mom is pushing her to go through a whole bunch of collage, and her mom would i guess be really mad at her if she dated. its a long story i still dont understand. get ready for the long slopy story! IM TIRED! lol anyways she and I have been hanging out A LOT! and I turned weak and fell in love with her and she had strong feelings for me as well. Anyway we where hanging out and she was depressed so I found it my duty to cheer her up wich I did. She then pulled out a letter and said this is for you but Im not done. she then looked upset and ripped it up????? after awhile I walked out to my car and she grabed me, huged me tightly and said "Chris I have to tell you something, I am falling for you and I have really strong feelings for you" so I then told her its OK because I loved her. then I got a kiss on the cheeck. so then we sit next to each other for about 2hrs talking holding hands etc and the she says I have to tell you something... I said ok then she said we need to stop being so close and stop talking so much and stop hanging out as much becasue she cant date right now and her feelings for me where getting stronger. I then proceded to tear up (lol shush!) and then we talked about it n I told her I would wait because she is like my other half. and then she said no dont wait etc. well after the talk she tried to cheer me up so she just hugs on me n kisses me. WTF? after that she lays on me and says she dosent want to leave and then she says she loves me. so we sit there for hours her in my arms she holding my hands. and then she leaves because she has school in the am which it was allready 3:30am... so the next day im huging on her etc... we go out to dinner etc... as we are walking i out my ar arround her n she takes my hand n moves it off... I figured she just didnt want an arm around her. when its time for her to go home I walk her to her car as usual and I attempt to give her a hug as usual....no hug... ok she calls me about 2 hrs later and I ask her whats up and she says we need to stop doing that. I tear up she comes over. ( shusssh! lol) she then cheers me up n kisses me a lot! and asks me to be her date to a halloween dance at her collage. I say ok and I ask her if she wants t be with me and she says of course so I say so we are offically a couple now huh. she says no she cant date? WTF? she ends up laying on me talking about how she wants to be with me and she proceds to kiss me even more... (damn my breath must smell good! lol) so she leaves i walk her to her car and I ask her if its going to be like this 2marro and she says I cant. then she prommised to be with me after she figures out what she is going to do with her life.... I have no clue what to do about this????? and I do love her she is the 1st girl I have ever had that hasnt been with me to use me for my car or my money. Im sooo messed up n depressed right now. so thats why I havent been on in a while.

how old are you..just wondering cause i been in your shoes..(probably still am)..

[97Cobra]

im 20...

[GTblackprodigy]

i turn 20 next month..yeah dude i definitely been in your shoes

[Phoenixx]

Originally Posted by drgnracin72 sux man, hope yall get everything worked up. heres what i would do in the siuation. tell her your done playing games, tell her youd like to be part of her life or whatever and then walk away form the situation. tell her to come see you when she grows the balls to do what SHE thinks is right, not what her mom thinks is good. it seems like an asshole move, but itll show you have balls and your not gonna stand around and just get pulled along by a leash like a dog. shell come back to you. but when you do, stop calling her, stop texting, let her call you, and when she does to just say hi, kinda just roll away from it like youv got something else to do. shell come around, itll just take some time. you know i wouldnt steer you wrong so let me know if ya need some more help

+1

He's right. If she can drag you around and make you wait she will. Her mom is happy and she's happy (at least to an extent cause she knows shell get you eventually). However you're not. She's not seeing that, or if she is she's being selfish. Honestly the girls in college and if she's still listening to her mom about dating she hasn't matured enough yet. College is a time to find yourself, and a big piece of that is relationships, friendships, dating, its all part of learning who you are. And its actually really important to do in college, because once you get a job and you're out in the "real world", there is an expectation that you know who you are, what you want etc.

[vfast]

just stick it in her poopar