[GTblackprodigy]

im repty sure now she's just thinking to herself about to say and the situation..what did you say on the message you send?

[HMUSN]

so say to her "you should stop being so picky"
" I wasn't"

[MustanG_guy17]

btw I basically just got the axe. I feel better now that I know.

[MustanG_guy17]

Originally Posted by HMUSN so say to her "you should stop being so picky" " I wasn't"

lmao.

[TheUNZippee!]

Originally Posted by TheUNZippee! I don't do friend zones, and never have. That doesn't mean I won't be friends with a woman, it just means I won't do the friend thing if it's a woman I'm interested in. It just causes too much grief. If it's meant to be it will happen, and at your young age you should move on and find a girl who is as interested in you as you are in her. Don't waste your time on someone who isn't interested. Trust me, and you prolly hear this from all the old guys, lol, but when you get older like me, you will look back on these days, and think "FUCK!! I should have just been carrying on having fun, meeting different women, and not wasted my time on those ones that gave me the cold shoulder or run around."

Listen to this dude^ lol

[HMUSN]

it's a quick way to knock her down a few pegs.
I wouldn't say it if you want to remain friends with her though

the best time to say that is in a crowd.

[MustanG_guy17]

Here guys translate this one
"honestly, you messaged me at a really bad time too
I was just telling scott how pissed off I am, so sorry if i sound like a bitch right now. i have dustin madd at me right now probally because i couldnt meet him somewhere & he thinks i just ditched him & i didnt i just showed up late & he already left. But really, you shouldnt like me. Ive lost so many guy friends that liked me but i didnt like them back & when i hung out with my other guy friends or guys im talking too, they got so jealous or something like that happends. Plus, really nice guys arent really my type anyway.
"

[TheUNZippee!]

Dude. She's an attention whore and a drama queen. Stay away. Heed my initial advice.

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falling in the friend zone is an immediate mission failure.

You have lost sir.

Friends stay friends, no matter how bad you want that punany.

Find a new girl, try again.

[00vabchgt]

Originally Posted by TheUNZippee! Listen to this dude^ lol

Zippee speaks the truth. if you find yourself constantly in the friend zone with different chicks, you're probably too much of a nice guy. i knew this guy a long time ago, looked a lot like me. we even had the same name. chicks were always telling him what a nice guy he was and bitching about why they couldn't meet nice guys. finally, he got tired of hearing these chicks being fucking retarded (and they are, don't ever let them make you think otherwise) and just stopped being so much of a nice guy. i'm not saying that you have to be a complete dick, but just find that asshole within and let him out every now and then. it'll keep you from getting repeatedly fucked over. when you're around her, just be casual. don't stumble over her every word, because they love the attention, and that just adds fuel to the fire. just act like you don't care one way or the other whether she notices you or not. you have to have the mindset that if she doesn't want to give you a chance, then it's her loss. believe me, this shit works. i don't know why, but it does. once you learn to keep her ego at bay, you can slowly introduce the other side of you. the side that cares and remembers her favorite kinds of flowers and her favorite color, all that shit. the whole key to the asshole method is that it becomes a very liberating feeling, not caring about whether you're impressing a chick or not, and freedom equals confidence. chicks love confidence (not arrogance, there's a fine line so tread carefully), and the asshole method, when executed properly, allows that confidence to come to the forefront, instead of that things that will eventually lead you to the friend zone instead of the vagina zone. it also allows you to keep yourself distanced enough that when she acts like a bitch to you, it rolls off you like water off a duck's back. remember, it's her loss, not yours. she's the one who'll be pissed when she sees you with another girl. and like Zippee said, you got your whole life ahead of you. quit trying to fall in love. it'll happen when it happens. for now, just enjoy what life and youth offer. the advice i offer here didn't come to me overnight. i wish someone had taught me the asshole method when i was younger, but i had to figure it out on my own. and after i did, it made a big difference. good luck, and may the force be with you
(sorry, i couldn't think of anything Zen to say)

[TheUNZippee!]

Listen to that guy^

[mattstang]

Originally Posted by TheUNZippee! Dude. She's an attention whore and a drama queen. Stay away. Heed my initial advice.

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Originally Posted by 00vabchgt Zippee speaks the truth. if you find yourself constantly in the friend zone with different chicks, you're probably too much of a nice guy. i knew this guy a long time ago, looked a lot like me. we even had the same name. chicks were always telling him what a nice guy he was and bitching about why they couldn't meet nice guys. finally, he got tired of hearing these chicks being fucking retarded (and they are, don't ever let them make you think otherwise) and just stopped being so much of a nice guy. i'm not saying that you have to be a complete dick, but just find that asshole within and let him out every now and then. it'll keep you from getting repeatedly fucked over. when you're around her, just be casual. don't stumble over her every word, because they love the attention, and that just adds fuel to the fire. just act like you don't care one way or the other whether she notices you or not. you have to have the mindset that if she doesn't want to give you a chance, then it's her loss. believe me, this shit works. i don't know why, but it does. once you learn to keep her ego at bay, you can slowly introduce the other side of you. the side that cares and remembers her favorite kinds of flowers and her favorite color, all that shit. the whole key to the asshole method is that it becomes a very liberating feeling, not caring about whether you're impressing a chick or not, and freedom equals confidence. chicks love confidence (not arrogance, there's a fine line so tread carefully), and the asshole method, when executed properly, allows that confidence to come to the forefront, instead of that things that will eventually lead you to the friend zone instead of the vagina zone. it also allows you to keep yourself distanced enough that when she acts like a bitch to you, it rolls off you like water off a duck's back. remember, it's her loss, not yours. she's the one who'll be pissed when she sees you with another girl. and like Zippee said, you got your whole life ahead of you. quit trying to fall in love. it'll happen when it happens. for now, just enjoy what life and youth offer. the advice i offer here didn't come to me overnight. i wish someone had taught me the asshole method when i was younger, but i had to figure it out on my own. and after i did, it made a big difference. good luck, and may the force be with you (sorry, i couldn't think of anything Zen to say)

Holy fuckin shit that was dead on.
I used to be that nice guy and do shit for them and that bullshit will NOT EVER work for you.

EDIT: PS- i know some stupid ass girl is gonna come on these forums and say "all girls aren't like that.. i'm looking for/already with a nice guy".. BULLSHIT. you're a fucking liar.

[MustanG_guy17]

Okay well I will take the advice. As of now tho it went like I thought. She basically doesn't even like me as a friend anymore because i asked her this. Which in turn i dont care, I just wanted to know before it got any further. Thanks so much for the help MM.

[TheUNZippee!]

Remember something else MG17. Just as women have a right to expect us to prove ourselves to them, WE also have a right to expect them to prove themselves to us. It's a two way street. They want to be treated with respect, and sometimes along the way the part where they respect our feelings seems to get forgotten or shit on.

Point being, if a woman doesn't treat me with the same respect I give her, I hit the bricks. Games are for children, not relationships.

[MustanG_guy17]

Originally Posted by TheUNZippee! Remember something else MG17. Just as women have a right to expect us to prove ourselves to them, WE also have a right to expect them to prove themselves to us. It's a two way street. They want to be treated with respect, and sometimes along the way the part where they respect our feelings seems to get forgotten or shit on. Point being, if a woman doesn't treat me with the same respect I give her, I hit the bricks. Games are for children, not relationships.

I agree. Im am only 18 i got alot of this stuff ahead of me.

[product1620]

ha, I guess I hit the nail on the head, she really is a cocky bitch, lol. By her saying she's not into nice guys tells me that she is imature, and isn't ready for a serious relationship, and judgeing by her attitude she probably will never be, move on to someone else, because she is not worth a gallon of gas.

[GTblackprodigy]

Originally Posted by MustanG_guy17 mmk well she replied...And said "I alrighty knew you liked me. duh. But I don't like you like that, you're just a friend & thats all I think we'll ever be. Thats why when you wanted to hangout at the movies I was like Nooo not the movies. && I asked to go in a GROUP of people so you dont think I like you back, because I dont. We're just friends. "

dude get the fuck out of there!..thats it..at the time when i was in your situation i felt like saying..fuck that i got enough friends..thanks..she told me.."why cant i be your friend like danny or your other friends"..i was like no ..because there fat asses that just work on cars and love shooting and racing and by the way they have no tits either.....she just never got it...
your 18..go on with your life..she'll regret it..one thing soeone told me once is that girls aslways wonder what if...so forgt her man