[Tiller]

Hey guys ok so my step brother 16 I think he is a dick....

My step dad and mom just moved to D.C. for new better jobs

My stepbrother is brain washed by his mom that my stepdad pat is a useless good for nothing guy, which is completely false

So now I guess his mom has talked him into saying that he doesnt want to see his father anymore he doesnt think they should visit

It killed my stepdad and my me so mad I wanted to beat him to death why would he do that!!!

I just want to go to his moms house and pull him outside and talk some sense into him but he is sooooooooo brainwashed by her,

I.e. he thinks hes sick when hes not by her saying or you dont feel good and you look sick blah blah blah so he thinks hes sick wtf

I wantr to have his butt kicked in school cause I know kids there but I know this wouldnt solve this issue

please someone hook me up with any info I dont want to see my stepdad hurt like this he's like my father

[acmillr]

Just leave it alone. It's the kid's loss. Look on the bright side. You can easily slide into the number 1 spot and get some mod money out of your stepdad.

[Tiller]

No man I dont take money from him it just doesnt seem right to me for some reason,

I dont want to think its his loss because hoenstly I dont think he knows what he is saying and I really want to help him no dad should ever go threw this...

I have never seen someone so hurt, Your own child saying I dont want to see you anymore....

[acmillr]

Originally Posted by Tiller88 No man I dont take money from him it just doesnt seem right to me for some reason, I dont want to think its his loss because hoenstly I dont think he knows what he is saying and I really want to help him no dad should ever go threw this... I have never seen someone so hurt, Your own child saying I dont want to see you anymore....

Yeah, I know. I'm just trying to get a little laugh out of ya'. Anyway, life sucks at times and it sucks even worse for divorcee families. Things like this usually seem to work themselves out. You can accomplish nothing by doing something to your step-brother. His mother would probably just tell him that his dad put you up to it anyway.

[Tiller]

yeah you did get me to smile though lol rep to ya,

So pretty much I cant do anything? Can I try to talk to him just to see if I can get threw...

I mean do you think it could happen?

[acmillr]

Originally Posted by Tiller88 yeah you did get me to smile though lol rep to ya, So pretty much I cant do anything? Can I try to talk to him just to see if I can get threw... I mean do you think it could happen?

I would use the real life ignore feature. He is wanting attention and you giving it to him will only strengthen his resolve to be a dick.

[Tiller]

Yeah I see where you are coming from but Im just thinkin it more his mom then anything.

I just want to have faith in him and try to get him to see the real things not the fake, bad, wrong, bs things that arnt real

[acmillr]

Originally Posted by Tiller88 Yeah I see where you are coming from but Im just thinkin it more his mom then anything. I just want to have faith in him and try to get him to see the real things not the fake, bad, wrong, bs things that arnt real

Try not to have too much faith in people. Deep down, we all have an agenda. You're not gonna make him see anything. It's sad but true. Just leave him alone and he will probably realize what a douche his mom is in a few years. Alot of your mentlities will change after the teen years.

[GenevieveD]

Originally Posted by acmillr Yeah, I know. I'm just trying to get a little laugh out of ya'. Anyway, life sucks at times and it sucks even worse for divorcee families. Things like this usually seem to work themselves out. You can accomplish nothing by doing something to your step-brother. His mother would probably just tell him that his dad put you up to it anyway.

uuuughhhhhh...as much as I hate to admit to agreeing with.... you

Hes right. The kid is only 16, He will realize his mistake in the years to come. The best thing you can do is be around for your step dad.

My mom kind of tried this trick with my brother since he was much much younger than me when my parents got divorced , and I wouldn't have it.

If you did try to talk to him, it may backfire and then you become one of the "bad guys" too.

[acmillr]

Originally Posted by GenevieveD uuuughhhhhh...as much as I hate to admit to agreeing with.... you

Sweet..... Common ground FTW...

[mpboy]

i didnt know my dad... wish i did... but now i work for the goverment... mabey i can go find him... and drink a beer with him

[Tiller]

Originally Posted by mpboy i didnt know my dad... wish i did... but now i work for the goverment... mabey i can go find him... and drink a beer with him

DO IT MAN!!!

[mpboy]

i kinda grew up in the bottom man, so he is prob dead or druged out

[Tiller]

Originally Posted by mpboy i kinda grew up in the bottom man, so he is prob dead or druged out

sorry to hear that man my apolagizes

[mpboy]

Originally Posted by Tiller88 sorry to hear that man my apolagizes

ah dont be sorry... fuck em