girlfriend situation update....

zinc02GT · May 13th, 2008, 09:57 PM

so my girlfriends step dad still hasnt apologized for grabbing her arm and throat and shoving her into her room when she knocked over something in her bathroom late at night...

This happened Sunday night. Its now Tuesday night...

Ive tried waiting, but I just cant take it anymore. I cant stand that he did that shit and still has yet to apologize...

I dont know what to do...

whitemustang02 · May 13th, 2008, 09:58 PM

has he done anything else of just not apologized

zinc02GT · May 13th, 2008, 09:59 PM

he hasnt done anyhting else...

he doesnt even look at her, let alone talk to her...

Im concerned...

futureMACH1racer · May 13th, 2008, 09:59 PM

Well make sure that you can kick his ass before you open your mouth.

HMUSN · May 13th, 2008, 10:01 PM

don't get involved in a father/ daughter issue.. even if it's only her step dad.
unless you see him attacking her..

G.T. Rags · May 13th, 2008, 10:03 PM

Originally Posted by HMUSN

don't get involved in a father/ daughter issue.. even if it's only her step dad.
unless you see him attacking her..

well put.

u can actually wind up making things a lot worse for her if u confront him about it.

honestly, the only thing u really can do is wait till he does it again, and hope ur there to crack a fool in his face

zinc02GT · May 13th, 2008, 10:04 PM

Originally Posted by HMUSN

don't get involved in a father/ daughter issue.. even if it's only her step dad.
unless you see him attacking her..

see thats what ive been trying to do. I know its that kind of situation and ive tried to not get involved at all...

but Doc, this shit is driving me up the freakin wall...

BWAL · May 13th, 2008, 10:04 PM

i think you should take a baseball bat...

then go play baseball.

83fox · May 13th, 2008, 10:04 PM

^+1 its only going to make it worse. he may get even more aggressive towards her if he thinks shes the cause of you kickin his ass

G.T. Rags · May 13th, 2008, 10:04 PM

Originally Posted by zinc02GT

see thats what ive been trying to do. I know its that kind of situation and ive tried to not get involved at all...

but Doc, this shit is driving me up the freakin wall...

then drag him outside by his ankles and break both his arms, but makes sure u break them for good, cause as soon as there better he's gonna hit her again.....

see my point?

HMUSN · May 13th, 2008, 10:05 PM

Originally Posted by zinc02GT

see thats what ive been trying to do. I know its that kind of situation and ive tried to not get involved at all...

but Doc, this shit is driving me up the freakin wall...

understandable.. but it's not your issue to deal with. It's hers.

zinc02GT · May 13th, 2008, 10:06 PM

Originally Posted by HMUSN

understandable.. but it's not your issue to deal with. It's hers.

well shes talked to her mom about it. her mom talked to marcus (step dad)

he still hasnt said anyhitng to kelly (my gf)...

her real dad doesnt know yet.... he lives in IL

futureMACH1racer · May 13th, 2008, 10:07 PM

Yeah, thats a tricky situation. I suggest that don't get involved unless you have to. If is abusive like that, then I suggest you lay down the law. The Code of Hammurabi. If she gets a bruise, he gets a broken bone, if she gets a broken bone he gets a mamed limb, so forth. If that doesn't work than just split that motherf*&kers head like watermelon on hot August afternoon.

graystang01 · May 13th, 2008, 10:08 PM

dude there isnt much u can do in this situation
just watch for him to do somethin else like this again

adrenaline=lifeline · May 13th, 2008, 10:08 PM

1 ur 18 so u cant start a confrentation and then fight. 2 if it came to that make sure its off HIS property cause he has less rites 3 if u must start something be subtle to kick off his temper 4 make him throw first punch 5 kick his ass just stop once he hits ground cause then its assault not self defense.

futureMACH1racer · May 13th, 2008, 10:10 PM

I guess maybe that I'm just a confrontational person.

zinc02GT · May 13th, 2008, 10:11 PM

Originally Posted by adrenaline=lifeline

1 ur 18 so u cant start a confrentation and then fight. 2 if it came to that make sure its off HIS property cause he has less rites 3 if u must start something be subtle to kick off his temper 4 make him throw first punch 5 kick his ass just stop once he hits ground cause then its assault not self defense.

i know what your saying...

i could never hit the man... Unless Im at her house and I see him hit her Id never touch the man....

If I was ever there and I saw him hit her Id drag him out to the middle of the street and beat him to a freakin pulp...

futureMACH1racer · May 13th, 2008, 10:11 PM

Not true brother, I know thing or to about the way the law reads, I'm studying law, and I have had multiple assualt and batterys.

whitemustang02 · May 13th, 2008, 10:13 PM

speaking for both side, as some one who was abused it is something i can't stand and flip out about.
but coming from some one who has almost hit a girl, i didn't but was close, people make mistakes and getting involved would only complicate the issue. and the reason he may not of apologized is cause he regrets what he did and doesn't want to bring it up

futureMACH1racer · May 13th, 2008, 10:14 PM

It doesn't matter if he assualts you first, you still can get in trouble. I was hit by a pool cue on the head, and I grabbed the guy and put him in a standing kimora and ripped his arm apart, and I got in trouble. Why?? because I could've let him go before it got the point where it snapped.

May 13th, 2008, 09:57 PM	#1
zinc02GT HUGE RED HEADED DUDE W/FIVE-OH 2011 Mustang GT 12.1 @ 116 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Alabama Posts: 5,346 iTrader: 1 reviews	girlfriend situation update.... so my girlfriends step dad still hasnt apologized for grabbing her arm and throat and shoving her into her room when she knocked over something in her bathroom late at night... This happened Sunday night. Its now Tuesday night... Ive tried waiting, but I just cant take it anymore. I cant stand that he did that shit and still has yet to apologize... I dont know what to do... __________________ Mods in garage. New mods, new track times soon.

May 13th, 2008, 09:58 PM	#2
whitemustang02 MM's official Chevy guy 2002 Mustang V6 Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Rochester, NY Posts: 2,026 iTrader: 0 reviews	has he done anything else of just not apologized __________________ "Speak softly and carry a big stick" - Theodore Roosevelt "Any idiot can make a V8 fast, it takes a real idiot to make a fast V6". '02 Mustang N/A 4.3 stroker away for winter '72 Chevelle project car 454 coming '93 Bronco EFI 351W DD

May 13th, 2008, 09:59 PM	#3
zinc02GT HUGE RED HEADED DUDE W/FIVE-OH 2011 Mustang GT 12.1 @ 116 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Alabama Posts: 5,346 iTrader: 1 reviews	he hasnt done anyhting else... he doesnt even look at her, let alone talk to her... Im concerned... __________________ Mods in garage. New mods, new track times soon.

May 13th, 2008, 09:59 PM	#4
futureMACH1racer Honeybadger is Crazy 2008 F-250 Super Duty Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: United States of America Posts: 10,883 iTrader: 0 reviews	Well make sure that you can kick his ass before you open your mouth. __________________ RIP Travis Bilings 5/6/1982-7/5/2011 Be polite. Be professional. But have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

May 13th, 2008, 10:01 PM	#5
HMUSN Doc 1986 SVO Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 36,836 iTrader: 9 reviews	don't get involved in a father/ daughter issue.. even if it's only her step dad. unless you see him attacking her.. __________________

May 13th, 2008, 10:04 PM	#9
83fox Enthusiast 1983 mustang lx Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 504 iTrader: 0 reviews	^+1 its only going to make it worse. he may get even more aggressive towards her if he thinks shes the cause of you kickin his ass

May 13th, 2008, 10:07 PM	#13
futureMACH1racer Honeybadger is Crazy 2008 F-250 Super Duty Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: United States of America Posts: 10,883 iTrader: 0 reviews	Yeah, thats a tricky situation. I suggest that don't get involved unless you have to. If is abusive like that, then I suggest you lay down the law. The Code of Hammurabi. If she gets a bruise, he gets a broken bone, if she gets a broken bone he gets a mamed limb, so forth. If that doesn't work than just split that motherf&kers head like watermelon on hot August afternoon. __________________ RIP Travis Bilings 5/6/1982-7/5/2011* Be polite. Be professional. But have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

May 13th, 2008, 10:08 PM	#15
adrenaline=lifeline Hardcore Enthusiast 2000 Mustang GT 13.86@100.3 Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Enterprise, AL Posts: 1,265 iTrader: 0 reviews	1 ur 18 so u cant start a confrentation and then fight. 2 if it came to that make sure its off HIS property cause he has less rites 3 if u must start something be subtle to kick off his temper 4 make him throw first punch 5 kick his ass just stop once he hits ground cause then its assault not self defense. __________________ 2004 40th Anniversary GT Pro 5.0 Shifter Lowered(H&R Springs) Summit Hpipe w Dynomax weldin mufflers Minor odds and ends

May 13th, 2008, 10:10 PM	#16
futureMACH1racer Honeybadger is Crazy 2008 F-250 Super Duty Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: United States of America Posts: 10,883 iTrader: 0 reviews	I guess maybe that I'm just a confrontational person. __________________ RIP Travis Bilings 5/6/1982-7/5/2011 Be polite. Be professional. But have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

May 13th, 2008, 10:11 PM	#18
futureMACH1racer Honeybadger is Crazy 2008 F-250 Super Duty Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: United States of America Posts: 10,883 iTrader: 0 reviews	Not true brother, I know thing or to about the way the law reads, I'm studying law, and I have had multiple assualt and batterys. __________________ RIP Travis Bilings 5/6/1982-7/5/2011 Be polite. Be professional. But have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

May 13th, 2008, 10:13 PM	#19
whitemustang02 MM's official Chevy guy 2002 Mustang V6 Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Rochester, NY Posts: 2,026 iTrader: 0 reviews	speaking for both side, as some one who was abused it is something i can't stand and flip out about. but coming from some one who has almost hit a girl, i didn't but was close, people make mistakes and getting involved would only complicate the issue. and the reason he may not of apologized is cause he regrets what he did and doesn't want to bring it up __________________ "Speak softly and carry a big stick" - Theodore Roosevelt "Any idiot can make a V8 fast, it takes a real idiot to make a fast V6". '02 Mustang N/A 4.3 stroker away for winter '72 Chevelle project car 454 coming '93 Bronco EFI 351W DD

May 13th, 2008, 10:14 PM	#20
futureMACH1racer Honeybadger is Crazy 2008 F-250 Super Duty Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: United States of America Posts: 10,883 iTrader: 0 reviews	It doesn't matter if he assualts you first, you still can get in trouble. I was hit by a pool cue on the head, and I grabbed the guy and put him in a standing kimora and ripped his arm apart, and I got in trouble. Why?? because I could've let him go before it got the point where it snapped. __________________ RIP Travis Bilings 5/6/1982-7/5/2011 Be polite. Be professional. But have a plan to kill everyone you meet.

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