Advice for the shy ones with girls...
Ever since my freshman year in 2005, I have had a crush on the same girl. She is/was a good girl, great gpa, college scholarship, never got into trouble, just a pure sweetheart and great with everybidy. But she still likes to party and have a good time in occasion, just like all of us.
I was a football player, didnt give a damn about my grades, skipped class and school, was an asshole(which i somewhat still am to idiots), and just your typical prep, i guess. But, I was shy and basically poor and couldnt really afford to go out and do alot of things.
I literally never said a word to her, was never an asshole to her, nor did I even give her the even slightest hint or clue that I had a huge crush on her for four years. We just had the ever so often being stuck beside each other talk in which I was shy as hell and didnt know what to say.
Well, we graduated in may of 2009. She went on to her scholarship at Western Kentucky University, and I partied my living ass off until september, a few months later, and shipped out to basic training. We was friends in facebook, but for about 3 years, never really talked. Just commenting on status, typical facebook bullshit.
Whenever I would post a status about me having a bad day or something bad happened, she always left a comment and words of encouragement. But we have never really talked for honestly 7 years, nothing indepth that is. Just like hey how ya been, etc.
After I had my crash last weekend, she commented words of encouragemet, and hoped i was ok, etc. She sent me a message and said to txt her and her number. So I did. Just honestly ranting about the damn deer and my poor Ella(name of the stang). And we have seriously been talking all day every day.
Friday night, I am back home on leave here in Kentucky. We had agreed to see each other and catch up and whatnot earlier but hadnt had the chance to yet. And I went to a bar/club that a bunch of my family was at and my familys band plays at every weekend. Needless to say, I got drunk as hell and free drinks out the ass.
We was txting the entire time. Telling me to have fun and be careful, etc. I finally txtd her... "Mary Katheryn, I have a confession." Keep in mind that I have had alot to drink but I was not drunk whatsoever, just somewhat buzzed. She said oh god, whats your confession. So I told her that i have had a crush on her since freshman year, 7 years ago.
I was expecting to freak her out, scare her off, etc. Needless to say, that hasnt happened and we have been talking seriously all day everyday and getting somewhere great! She said she wished i woukd have said something sooner, and i told her i was shy and couldbt afford to take her anywhere, etc. She said that i am a great guy, good head on my shoulders, a good life plan, we honestly want to move and live in the same places as each other(not kentucky). We have talked about past relationships, she said i have always kept a smile on her face, basically everything. I honestly think, this could get somewhere.
Advice, dont be shy. If you want something, take it!
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