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post #21 of 38 Old December 27th, 2012, 11:04 AM
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^ idk I thought it was decent advice...

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post #22 of 38 Old December 27th, 2012, 11:17 AM
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That was horrible advice.

And if all you are is "out to get laid" or looking for a "hole to stick your meat in" then you are not ready nor do you deserve a serious relationship. Wow. Just wow.

OP - giving you props for giving a shit about the girl you're with. If she doesn't appreciate what you are doing for her then move on. Maybe give her NastyNate's phone number. Maybe she'll appreciate what you've done for her and come back. Though I'm not sure I'd want it after he's done with it.

You're young and you clearly have a good head on your shoulders. Take a break from a serious relationship - enjoy hanging around with guys your age and have fun. Life gets too serious to fast for kids these days. Find someone you can just be friends with without the pressure of sex and monetary responsibilities like groceries and rent. Once you find that person that you know you can't live the rest of your life with - you will know. It will be the most obvious, glaring thing in your life and there will be no question whatsoever. If you're questioning now - you are not with the one you are supposed to be with. Not a good match - and if she hits - it will never be good. Time to move on buddy.


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I've been there done that. Sticking around to have a female physically hit you. Thats where I draw the line. All girls are crazy to a certain extent. But when you are a victim of domestic abuse you need to get out.

The world we live in holds such a double standard in that respect.

If the OP was a female and was getting shit thrown at her and slapped, everyone would be "OMG leave his piece of shit ass."

To say I'm a moron for telling this dude to go out and bang some randoms rather than stay in an obvious psychically and emotionally abusive relationship is retarded. The OP is young and shouldn't have to deal with shit like that. Nobody should.

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I've been there done that. Sticking around to have a female physically hit you. Thats where I draw the line. All girls are crazy to a certain extent. But when you are a victim of domestic abuse you need to get out.

The world we live in holds such a double standard in that respect.

If the OP was a female and was getting shit thrown at her and slapped, everyone would be "OMG leave his piece of shit ass."

To say I'm a moron for telling this dude to go out and bang some randoms rather than stay in an obvious psychically and emotionally abusive relationship is retarded. The OP is young and shouldn't have to deal with shit like that. Nobody should.
I agree about the double standard, but I really don't think OP should be taking advice from a guy who refers to a girl as "a hole to stick your dick in."



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That was horrible advice.

And if all you are is "out to get laid" or looking for a "hole to stick your meat in" then you are not ready nor do you deserve a serious relationship. Wow. Just wow.

OP - giving you props for giving a shit about the girl you're with. If she doesn't appreciate what you are doing for her then move on. Maybe give her NastyNate's phone number. Maybe she'll appreciate what you've done for her and come back. Though I'm not sure I'd want it after he's done with it.

You're young and you clearly have a good head on your shoulders. Take a break from a serious relationship - enjoy hanging around with guys your age and have fun. Life gets too serious to fast for kids these days. Find someone you can just be friends with without the pressure of sex and monetary responsibilities like groceries and rent. Once you find that person that you know you can't live the rest of your life with - you will know. It will be the most obvious, glaring thing in your life and there will be no question whatsoever. If you're questioning now - you are not with the one you are supposed to be with. Not a good match - and if she hits - it will never be good. Time to move on buddy.
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You sir, are a moron.
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I'm 21, a safety net for every girl I know that I consider a friend , and I've stayed away from relationships for a little over a year, so take any advice from me for what it's worth.

You can't have two people together that aren't willing to put the same effort into a relationship. My last 'relationship' sucked ass. I was still doing my 70-75 hours a week and driving 30 minutes one way 4-5 times a week to see her. I'd do anything and everything and would get minimal attention recognition for anything that I did. She was more interested in showing off what I'd do/get for her than me myself. (I'm not a cheap bastered, but $50+$10 tip dinners several times a week aren't my preference when I'm saving for a house.)

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I agree about the double standard, but I really don't think OP should be taking advice from a guy who refers to a girl as "a hole to stick your dick in."
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Well, he said something that I thought merited it. I don't care who he is.
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She sounds mentally unstable. Coming from expierence medication helps but that instability will always be there. I'm currently battling a similar situation but I am engaged and have been with her 5 years. We split up for a few months awhile back and then got back together and the same pattern is happening again that lead to the split the first time. Honestly I wish I had the last 2-3 years back. If I were you I would go have fun don't let her bring you down. You are about to be in your prime and have the best years of your life. Don't waste it letting someone bring you down


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Well i may be single...
Doesn't seem she wants anything to do with me...

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who cares.

Is she pregnant? Does she blow you daily? Is it really worth the pain and struggle that you have to deal with just to keep her around?

This may not all apply to you, but some of the people posting these threads need to step back and look at the situation.

If you have been with this girl, and she constantly is causing problems, maybe its time to move on and find another hole to stick your dick in.

Yea you love her or whatever but, this might sound cliche, there are tonnnnnnnnssssss of girls out there that just want to put your man meat into thier mouths and/or vaginas.

Id say if you are under the age of 25 and having girl problems. get rid of the bitch and move on..
These comments are the ones I took exception to. Perhaps your filter isn't working. If you reworded it and turned on your filter, it would have been tons better. You're basically saying that unless she's pregnant and you are "required" to be with her by some unborn child - ditch her. Oh, unless you're getting sucked off daily then um....be a man and stick around so you can get some. Again....not good advice. Immature at best.

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That was horrible advice.

And if all you are is "out to get laid" or looking for a "hole to stick your meat in" then you are not ready nor do you deserve a serious relationship. Wow. Just wow.

OP - giving you props for giving a shit about the girl you're with. If she doesn't appreciate what you are doing for her then move on. Maybe give her NastyNate's phone number. Maybe she'll appreciate what you've done for her and come back. Though I'm not sure I'd want it after he's done with it.

You're young and you clearly have a good head on your shoulders. Take a break from a serious relationship - enjoy hanging around with guys your age and have fun. Life gets too serious to fast for kids these days. Find someone you can just be friends with without the pressure of sex and monetary responsibilities like groceries and rent. Once you find that person that you know you can't live the rest of your life with - you will know. It will be the most obvious, glaring thing in your life and there will be no question whatsoever. If you're questioning now - you are not with the one you are supposed to be with. Not a good match - and if she hits - it will never be good. Time to move on buddy.
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I've been there done that. Sticking around to have a female physically hit you. Thats where I draw the line. All girls are crazy to a certain extent. But when you are a victim of domestic abuse you need to get out.

The world we live in holds such a double standard in that respect.

If the OP was a female and was getting shit thrown at her and slapped, everyone would be "OMG leave his piece of shit ass."

To say I'm a moron for telling this dude to go out and bang some randoms rather than stay in an obvious psychically and emotionally abusive relationship is retarded. The OP is young and shouldn't have to deal with shit like that. Nobody should.
At no point in time did I tell him he needs to stay and put up with that shit. On the contrary. I agreed with you - had you left it at the highlighted sentence above, you would have gotten some respect from me for decent advice.


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post #33 of 38 Old December 27th, 2012, 10:52 PM
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I'd say bail dude... Think about the future.. Your ex is your ex for A reason.
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Well i may be single...
Doesn't seem she wants anything to do with me...
I can't believe you let her dump you, before you dumped her. "Giving her the key back"
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My advice is let it go. I was in a relationship form 18-21 and ended it right around my 21st. Every guy should be single when 21 in my opinion. Go out, meet new people, females especially, and just have a good time. Becoming single when I turned 21 was the best decision I have made. I had a couple years of fun before I got back into a serious relationship.

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My advice is let it go. I was in a relationship form 18-21 and ended it right around my 21st. Every guy should be single when 21 in my opinion. Go out, meet new people, females especially, and just have a good time. Becoming single when I turned 21 was the best decision I have made. I had a couple years of fun before I got back into a serious relationship.

You are 18 and if you think it's tough now, you still have a lot to learn.
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i know what you mean. girls slapa me all the time.

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