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post #1 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 05:26 PM Thread Starter
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Looking for inspiring words.

Hello fellow MM'ers. I'm in a place in life I have never been before. I have lost loved ones and friends before, and feel I grieved pretty well, and in a healthy way.

This time feels different.

We lost our 4 month old son last night. He stopped breathing, myself, the paramedics, as well as the doctors at the hospital did CPR for an hour and 45 mins but he never responded. So he's gone now. I don't have my lil guy anymore and don't know how to deal with it.

I have had to repeat the story of how he died no less than 50 times in the last 16hrs to cops, detectives, doctors, family members, friends etc. I break down every time I have to utter the words that he's dead, or not with us etc.

My whole life I have been able to be strong for others in dealing with their loss, and I'm trying to be strong for my girl, and her kids and my daughter, but it's hard to put on the iron mask and not break down with them.

Just need some words of encouragement, understanding, advice, whatever.


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post #2 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 05:31 PM
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I don't even know what to say. I'll pray for you and your family, stay strong. I can't imagine the pain you are feeling. I'm so sorry.
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post #3 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 05:34 PM
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Wow. I'm with Austin. You are going through the hardest situation a person ever could. God will give you the strength to make it thru. You will see your son again someday.


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post #4 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 05:44 PM
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I'll be praying for you, man. There isn't much else to say, as few have gone through that. There's no love like a parent's love. Stay strong, man.


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post #5 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 05:49 PM
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As a parent I can't even begin to pretend I know how you feel right now. I honestly can't even imagine. There's a master plan for everyone, and it may be tough to understand right now, but take comfort knowing he will be in a better place. You have my sincere condolences.


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post #6 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 05:53 PM
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There are no words that can explain the feeling you have now after losing your pride and joy.
I am deeply sorry you lost your son, I could not imagine the pain you are feeling.

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post #7 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 05:54 PM
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Prayer sent bro. There is no way I could fathom of what that feels like if I lost one of my babies.

Be tough, you will make it through.

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post #8 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 05:58 PM
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im speechless and dont really know what to say honestly. im sorry for your loss, just keep your head up and stay strong man.




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post #9 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 06:10 PM
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Sorry to hear that man, no parent should ever have to bury their child.

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I am extremely sorry, there is nothing that can make it better for a long time.

But I've been through some terrible things in life, and all along, I've always repeated these words "Live by Faith, not by Sight" Whether you are religious or not, have faith that things will work out, they always do, even when you cannot see how they possibly could.

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post #11 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 06:10 PM
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Oh my god man. I'm almost in tears after reading that being a parent myself.

I know you said you had other kids too, all I can say is give them an extra hug tonight and cherish every moment with them that much more. You'll get through it, it'll be tough for awhile no doubt about it but stay strong and don't feel ashamed to ask for help from others at a time like this.
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post #12 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 06:15 PM
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Stay strong brother. We are all praying for you. We are all family here and if you ever need to talk, myself and many others will always be there for you. I think grieving sometimes is just the right thing to do. Losing a family member is never easy.

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post #13 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 06:40 PM
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Oh my God, I got chills and then teared up reading this. I couldn't even imagine what you must be going through right now. I don't even know what to say. I just want to give you a big hug and hold you. I have some pretty good faith in the Lord but it is times like these that really test that faith. I don't think I could handle the loss of my boy and keep my faith in God. If there is anything we can do here, please ask. God Bless my friend. I'm so sorry for your loss.


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+1^^ gay or not dude, if i knew ya, i'd hug ya like a sum bitch right now!! prayers sent for you and the family man!!
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post #15 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 07:38 PM
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+1^^ gay or not dude, if i knew ya, i'd hug ya like a sum bitch right now!! prayers sent for you and the family man!!
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post #16 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 08:08 PM
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Prayers sent man . I can't even begin to imagine how you are feeling right now. Try to stay strong


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post #17 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 08:16 PM
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Prayers sent. Stay strong. You can- and should- get through this.

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post #18 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 08:19 PM
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My parents had a son before me and he had heart failure after 18 months, shortly after I was born. My parents and I believe he died so I may live, perhaps your son has let someone come into this life in place of him. I'm very sorry for your loss, I don't pray but I will say a few words for him tonight.

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post #19 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 08:25 PM
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My parents had a son before me and he had heart failure after 18 months, shortly after I was born. My parents and I believe he died so I may live, perhaps your son has let someone come into this life in place of him. I'm very sorry for your loss, I don't pray but I will say a few words for him tonight.

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Thats actually really nice. Thats the way I look at it a lot too when I hear tragedies like this.
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post #20 of 65 Old April 13th, 2013, 08:57 PM
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Prayers sent to you and your family. As a father of 2 boys I can't imagine your pain. Stay strong and take it a day at a time. God bless.
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