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post #61 of 198 Old October 31st, 2013, 03:59 PM
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Colleen I think its different than just sitting on the same bed when she jumps on him and starts grinding on him. OP, I wouldn't beat yourself too much. While you may have made a regrettable decision, it is not like the girl wasn't partially responsible as well, and was clearly fine with what was going on.

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Colleen I think its different than just sitting on the same bed when she jumps on him and starts grinding on him. OP, I wouldn't beat yourself too much. While you may have made a regrettable decision, it is not like the girl wasn't partially responsible as well, and was clearly fine with what was going on.
Why are some of you trying to justify this? It's equal blame for both people involved. He could have pushed her off, don't make him a victim and her a whore.

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Why are some of you trying to justify this? It's equal blame for both people involved. He could have pushed her off, don't make him a victim and her a whore.

Say no to slut shaming.
I agree with you.

I find it quite funny that some are like it is fine to fuck another dudes girlfriend blah blah blah, you did nothing wrong, it was ALL the girls fault. Honestly... what???



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post #65 of 198 Old October 31st, 2013, 04:24 PM
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How come when a guy cheats on a girl he's an asshole but this girl cheats on her boyfriend and she's suddenly a whore?

Dude was wrong. He knew she had a boyfriend. He even said he knew that the girl's boyfriend was "crazy in love" with her. When that girl comes on to you you tell her to get her shit and leave.
Girl was wrong. She's in a relationship and it's not with you. She had every opportunity to stop it but didn't.

You both cheated on her boyfriend.

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'Cause she's allowed to have male friends?
I've been on a bed with guys that I'm not dating. When we don't have interest in dating each other.
Why? Cause my friends are college guys who often only have a bed and a computer chair and the chair is usually covered in shit and I don't like watching TV from the floor....
I honestly think both people who cheat, rather its a man or woman is fucked up. If your willing to lead someone on in a relationship and waste their emotions/time then your a piece of shit as human. Your sex doesn't matter, I think the term slut or whore is used simply because it is seen as one of the worst things to call a woman on the spectrum. I'd call a woman a slut if she cheats and I would call a man a piece of shit or prick since a guy that cheats probably wont be worried about being call a man-whore.

Also I see where you come from on the whole having someone over, I guess it came off wrong since I know the girl cheated. I could care less if I date a girl and trust them, however I honestly wouldn't date a girl that would lay in bed with another guy. Call me insecure if you want, I was just raised to not put myself in temptations way like that.

Also Wilson alot of people on here have experienced this first hand and understand just how shitty it is to be cheated on, most would prefer to be told rather than waste their time and believe for 6 months that everything is fine in the relationship. If your committed, wether your married or not. Its still wrong to cheat.

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Why are some of you trying to justify this? It's equal blame for both people involved. He could have pushed her off, don't make him a victim and her a whore.

Say no to slut shaming.
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However if you can't trust your guy or girl to be alone in a room with someone of the opposite sex then you shouldn't be together. Those trust issues are gonna fuck your relationship up whether they're warranted or not.
I disagree. I used to think that was true. Its beyond trust..its the idea that your putting yourself in that situation. If I have a girlfriend and she wants to hang out with her male friends, great. But if she goes to his dorm knowing there is only a computer chair and a bed, then thats wrong of her. Hangout in an appropriate setting. It doesn't matter how much you love or trust one another, you shouldn't do things like that.

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Damn you Isaac you man whore!!!!!


JK...been there as well, I felt like a dick too. After it all happened, the thought of "if she's doing this to her boyfriend now, she'll probably do it to me...". After that, I felt pretty stupid but I can't say I blame you man. I've been in your shoes OP, it's not easy.
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Damn, op seems like a little shit-head. You're both to blame.

Don't you think it was a dumb idea to know she had a boyfriend and rail her anyway? You shouldn't have to get online on a forum to ask people you don't know whether it is wrong or not.

You're how old, 23? Can you seriously not get your shit together well enough to know wrong from right? Hell, you're even past the age to buy a handgun and get a cwp at this point. You definitely don't seem like the type of person I would want acquiring either of those.

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^lmao at this post funny but quite true, in other news like I said earlier shit happens we all make mistakes now go live your life
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Why are some of you trying to justify this? It's equal blame for both people involved. He could have pushed her off, don't make him a victim and her a whore.

Say no to slut shaming.
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I fail to see the stupidity of OP. He simply took advantage of a situation, that I think a majority of our younger audience here would take. As for those who are claiming he is stupid, or disgusting. Come on. You're either upset because you're settled down and you are afraid of the thought that it could happen to you, or old enough where you're not concerned with being honest, but being a presence of maturity.


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I fail to see the stupidity of OP. He simply took advantage of a situation, that I think a majority of our younger audience here would take. As for those who are claiming he is stupid, or disgusting. Come on. You're either upset because you're settled down and you are afraid of the thought that it could happen to you, or old enough where you're not concerned with being honest, but being a presence of maturity.

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I fail to see the stupidity of OP. He simply took advantage of a situation, that I think a majority of our younger audience here would take. As for those who are claiming he is stupid, or disgusting. Come on. You're either upset because you're settled down and you are afraid of the thought that it could happen to you, or old enough where you're not concerned with being honest, but being a presence of maturity.
I wouldn't. I've been in that situation numerous times; even when I was younger. Wasn't brought up that way. Sure, I could be friends with her and we could hang out a little, but if we were in that situation I wouldn't think about it. I just knew better.


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I fail to see the stupidity of OP. He simply took advantage of a situation, that I think a majority of our younger audience here would take. As for those who are claiming he is stupid, or disgusting. Come on. You're either upset because you're settled down and you are afraid of the thought that it could happen to you, or old enough where you're not concerned with being honest, but being a presence of maturity.
Sorry to be blunt, well, I'm not really, it's how I am when I see a line of bullshit.

He was stupid because he knew better and still went ahead with it and then came here hoping we'd agree with him and make him feel better about the shitty thing that he had done. Whether or not she wanted to do it or was willing to cheat is ultimately unrelated to the discussion. It was up to him to say no and be the bigger person knowing that she had a boyfriend.

If you don't respect another mans relationship, then you don't deserve my respect.

You're ill informed and playing to stereotypes about young men being dirt bag girl users and girls being cock hounds.

The rest of your argument about settling down or fearful of being in that situation is downright stupid all by itself. I've been in those situations, I was in that situation when I was 23 and you know what, I passed on the opportunity to trample on someone else's relationship.

The day you stop using the excuse "well other people have done it" or "you would too" is the day you're mature enough to be called a man.

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she's a slut for sleeping around when shes got a boyfriend, and you're a manwhore for fucking her when you knew she had a boyfriend.




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I fail to see the stupidity of OP. He simply took advantage of a situation, that I think a majority of our younger audience here would take. As for those who are claiming he is stupid, or disgusting. Come on. You're either upset because you're settled down and you are afraid of the thought that it could happen to you, or old enough where you're not concerned with being honest, but being a presence of maturity.
I am neither of those things. I'm just a little pissed that a 23 year old started a thread because he can't tell the difference between right and "wrong". If it's not that, maybe he's just trying to brag, in which case I couldn't give 2 shits about him or his story.

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