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August 20th, 2012 12:36 AM
black02 We still need a pic!!!! And out of curiosity am I the only guy that likes to get rejected and laughs when it happens I go out with alot of girls 3 last week and hooked up with 2 of them but when it comes down to the one girl who rejects me I actually like the felling m laugh over it


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August 19th, 2012 12:49 PM
sonicx F pink, acquire green.
Motto I tend to side with. If I could have money back that I've spent on women.... Wow

Seriously there's a lot of terrible women. But hind side is 50/50 because I've met about as many good as I've had bad. Good things happen for those who wait. it'll happen. Don't wish your youth away. Enjoy because soon enough you'll have your ball n chains. ahaha
August 18th, 2012 08:02 PM
Whiskey11
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Originally Posted by 04Sixxer View Post
Damn Whiskey, that's weird. I haven't been in a committed relationship in a few years either. I'll try to do what you're doing. Zero fucks given, and see how it works out. How old are you?
I'm 24.

Its not that you shouldn't care prior to a decision being made, just don't be needy and clingy and all that stuff. If things don't work, don't get hung up on the rejection, just stop giving a fuck and things are so much easier for you. Move on. I spent way too much time in the past bitching, moaning, and wondering what I fucked up on and it really ruined a large portion of the time I should have been using to social network.

When you do finally go on a date, tell yourself (and believe) that it doesn't matter if this girl likes you or not. You do care if she does but you are more likely to be yourself rather than Mr. Agreeable if you don't care if she likes you. It helped me out a lot when I was sitting at Old Chicago drinking beer with that gal on Monday night. Chances are if she is on a date with you, she is at least interested in getting to know you better.
August 18th, 2012 07:05 PM
1.4banger
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What the fuck? Get the hell out of my life! The girl I talked about in my post is going to school to be a vet tech (pet nurse essentially) and is in a college about 4 hours away... She leaves tomorrow though.

Strange how close our stories are..

Anyway, if it doesn't work out, TRUST ME and Zipper, pout a little then stop giving a fuck. It is so much easier on you. Ask me how I know? I have been single for 6 years, last time I was in a relationship beyond just hanging out was 5 years ago. Prior to this week last date was over a year and a half ago and it didn't end well. Aside from the periods where I litter ally stopped looking to focus on school and myself, I have been trying. Rejection sucks but as Zip said there are far worse things than rejection. Just take it in and use it to better yourself. Shit will come around.

Good luck though! I hope things work out for your sake.
Damn Whiskey, that's weird. I haven't been in a committed relationship in a few years either. I'll try to do what you're doing. Zero fucks given, and see how it works out. How old are you?
August 18th, 2012 05:29 PM
Whiskey11
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Well fuck, OP was gonna just go for it but I got some good and bad news last night. We're both starting college this year. Well, she did a summer school program at a school 6 hours away because they had what she wanted (she wants to be a veterinarian) but they denied her application for the fall semester. I'm going to a university close to home and she was going to go to a local community college. Anyway, she just heard back from the university 6 hours away that she was accepted. I told her she needs to go there because for what she wants to do the university will be a MUCH better school to go to. It sucks for both of us but I don't want her to be held back in any way. She's going to go there and she leaves a week from today.

So yeah, it's now 11:30 AM and i'm craving alcohol.
What the fuck? Get the hell out of my life! The girl I talked about in my post is going to school to be a vet tech (pet nurse essentially) and is in a college about 4 hours away... She leaves tomorrow though.

Strange how close our stories are..

Anyway, if it doesn't work out, TRUST ME and Zipper, pout a little then stop giving a fuck. It is so much easier on you. Ask me how I know? I have been single for 6 years, last time I was in a relationship beyond just hanging out was 5 years ago. Prior to this week last date was over a year and a half ago and it didn't end well. Aside from the periods where I litter ally stopped looking to focus on school and myself, I have been trying. Rejection sucks but as Zip said there are far worse things than rejection. Just take it in and use it to better yourself. Shit will come around.

Good luck though! I hope things work out for your sake.
August 18th, 2012 04:45 PM
TheUNZippee!
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Originally Posted by 04Sixxer View Post
Well fuck, OP was gonna just go for it but I got some good and bad news last night. We're both starting college this year. Well, she did a summer school program at a school 6 hours away because they had what she wanted (she wants to be a veterinarian) but they denied her application for the fall semester. I'm going to a university close to home and she was going to go to a local community college. Anyway, she just heard back from the university 6 hours away that she was accepted. I told her she needs to go there because for what she wants to do the university will be a MUCH better school to go to. It sucks for both of us but I don't want her to be held back in any way. She's going to go there and she leaves a week from today.

So yeah, it's now 11:30 AM and i'm craving alcohol.
6 hours is tough, brother.
August 18th, 2012 02:54 PM
GreenShift Time to buy a Prius to afford the gas to visit her I guess
August 18th, 2012 02:51 PM
1.4banger Zip I don't know if you saw my last post on here. She's gonna be 6 hours away.
August 18th, 2012 12:39 PM
TheUNZippee!
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What the Zipper says about moving on if it goes nowhere is true. Its also quite relieving. Earlier this week I took a gal I used to work with out to dinner and we spent the better part of four hours chatting about everything and nothing and when I went to ask for a second date I have yet to hear from her. Seems to be a real common trend for women to do that to me and to be honest, a total of zero fucks are currently being given and it feels fucking awesome.
Awesome. That's how it goes. Too many young guys get discouraged by being turned down or if a chick isn't interested in them. That's what it takes, going out with multiple broads before you find someone you click with.

Also, guys who really fear rejection often wind up staying in relationships that are toxic (girls too for that matter) because they're so afraid of being alone and having to go out with people... they just stay in a shitty relationship.

If out of 100 women you went out with, only say 20 went out with you a second time, and say a dozen or two you fooled around with, a handful or two you had sex with, but STILL didn't find a relationship... I'd call that better than sitting at home going "Oh I can't ask girls out... the rejection kills me."

No it doesn't. Bullets kill you. A speeding truck, disease, a knife, Rainbow's horrific body odor kills you. But being rejected will not kill you.

August 18th, 2012 12:33 PM
Dereks197 Don't feel bad brotha, take it all a day at a time, if it's meant to be it'll eventually happen, if not there's plenty of other opportunities in your days ahead
August 18th, 2012 12:28 PM
1.4banger
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What did the OP do?!?
Well fuck, OP was gonna just go for it but I got some good and bad news last night. We're both starting college this year. Well, she did a summer school program at a school 6 hours away because they had what she wanted (she wants to be a veterinarian) but they denied her application for the fall semester. I'm going to a university close to home and she was going to go to a local community college. Anyway, she just heard back from the university 6 hours away that she was accepted. I told her she needs to go there because for what she wants to do the university will be a MUCH better school to go to. It sucks for both of us but I don't want her to be held back in any way. She's going to go there and she leaves a week from today.

So yeah, it's now 11:30 AM and i'm craving alcohol.
August 18th, 2012 11:40 AM
2010Mustang
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Originally Posted by HighDensity View Post
Gonna have to see a pic of said lady to see exactly how hard you need to love her

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August 18th, 2012 11:39 AM
UDEAFBRO?
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Gonna have to see a pic of said lady to see exactly how hard you need to love her

+1
August 18th, 2012 11:34 AM
HighDensity Gonna have to see a pic of said lady to see exactly how hard you need to love her

August 18th, 2012 11:26 AM
2010Mustang What did the OP do?!?
August 18th, 2012 10:30 AM
Blackwid0wXR7
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Originally Posted by 04Sixxer View Post
I'm a bit confused on the way I feel for her.

We get along so well though that sometimes i'd just love to be nothing more than friends, that way we could talk about anything and everything. But anytime I hear about previous bf's, etc. I get super jealous and pissed off. i'm definitely attracted to her sexually, hell even when we're out in public I can't keep my hands off of her, but I don't think i'd pull the trigger and have sex with her unless the timing was just PERFECT.

So, what do y'all think? Am I just head-over-heels in love with her? Or am I just being too much of a pussy who worries about... feelings
I can totally relate. My current girlfriend of 8 months always used to talk about exes and stuff, then I just sat her down AFTER I asked her out and had a talk with her about how it made me feel, and showed her how men hate hearing that crap. Since that I've been in the most fun, stable relationship I've ever been in. So GO FOR IT MAN! Just let her know how it makes you feel AFTER you have dated a bit. I think you're a bit scared of pissing her off and losing her. If she's worth a damn she will still be there even after you spill the beans. As far as feelings, we all got em, so it's natural! Save sex for once you're in a relationship and the timing is right like you said.
August 18th, 2012 10:24 AM
Whiskey11 What the Zipper says about moving on if it goes nowhere is true. Its also quite relieving. Earlier this week I took a gal I used to work with out to dinner and we spent the better part of four hours chatting about everything and nothing and when I went to ask for a second date I have yet to hear from her. Seems to be a real common trend for women to do that to me and to be honest, a total of zero fucks are currently being given and it feels fucking awesome.
August 18th, 2012 09:42 AM
PurpleFire! y'all are weird
August 18th, 2012 01:40 AM
TheUNZippee!
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Being senile sucks huh? *wipes semenmilk off face*





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Did you eat it anyway? Cant waste a good brownie
August 18th, 2012 01:38 AM
GreenShift Did you eat it anyway? Cant waste a good brownie
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