ok then yes. Thank you for finally doing it. But I really have to ask. Why did you think it was a good idea to try to get more out of it, and then to clearly avoid us and not admit to fault earlier? You could have avoided a lot of this ya know?No. I am sending him the parts because it is the right thing to do.
Id like to hear gravik explanation on this one as well. I understand hes cover his ass right now on this injector and boost a pump fiasco, but id like to know if there is a history of shadiness.That's pretty much already the case. The main local forum here gives him so much **** for everything he posts it's ridiculous. He's just a little different, like with Banana when we got it after we agreed on a price (over the phone) he said he had to run to his parent's house to get the bill of sale which was fine. But when he came back it had the worn stock shift knob on (instead of an 03/04 it was shown with) and the in box Mach 1 lip and grille delete was no longer in the car. It took me weeks before I could finally get the lip and grille. I was to the point where I said just leave em in the bushes outside your house and I'll come pick em up lol.
Happy he made it right though, despite the fight he put up lol.
You, me, or anyone else do not know gravik, how he was raised, what he's been through... any of the factors that would lead him to **** up. Could it be fear? Yes. Could it have been something else? Yes. Could it have been a combination of things? Yes. But you don't know.
And if you interpret that as to mean we should feel bad for him, or that people should get away with ****, you don't understand what I'm driving at. For all the people that screw others in these transactions... probably 95+ percent of them never get resolved. Very few make it right, and even fewer man up and apologize... even if it WAS fear. That STILL takes balls. And if you don't get that... so be it.
It's just sort of a raw deal when 95 or whatever percent of the people never come back and make it right, let alone apologize, but the rare guy who does, still has to be treated as if he was one of the ones who didn't make it right. That doesn't mean like him, that doesn't mean trust him. I would certainly never buy anything from him. But there is a way to act and think in this life, and a way to make points that don't involve certain behaviors or reactions.
+1 although not happy with how you originally handled it, glad to see you came to your sense and apologized in the end.
I think he meant that sending the parts on Monday is the right thing to do? :dunnoyou tried to get more money out of him because thats the right thing? Im at lose of words
or am I reading that wrong. I cant tell any more
I don't think he is trying to justify what happened, just saying that we should back off a bit now that he made it right with op, I think 10 pages of flame is good enough lol
I understand that bit and agree with you there. But I wasn't trying to justify it in any way. There is no justifying. All there can be if someone ****s someone over, is the ****ed stay ****ed by the ****ee, or the ****ee steps up and makes things right with the ****ed, and possibly an apology. Which, for whatever reason drove them to do so, is pretty rare.
:lol+1 although not happy with how you originally handled it, glad to see you came to your sense and apologized in the end.
I think he meant that sending the parts on Monday is the right thing to do? :dunno
Edit: Covered. lol. Was on page 10 :facepalm:
I think it takes balls to apologize and admit that you are wrong but not so much to do the right thing. Unless you are narcissistic, you should know that when you tell someone this is what you are buying and then you don't deliver on what you sold, then you are somewhat stealing from someone.
Megabanned? No, but a negative Itrader rating and maybe a couple day ban or pinking would be in order but I think that is a little extreme for someone who stepped up to the plate and corrected his mistake. I honestly don't believe it should have come this far though. He certainly seems to believe that he can get away with not delivering things as stated.
Yeah. And a sandwich.Perhaps you should pack an apology in the box as well. Pretty shady dude.
You get back in the shed until the next angry mob!You need me.
Pretty much. As unsatisfying as it is to have the seller do the right thing, he did step up. I wouldn't buy anything from him in the future, but he did make things right.I feel like we are just :deadhorse here, dick move? yes, problem solved? yes,apology made? yes, lets move on lol :2cents.