He of Long Wind
That's why she's an "X". She tried to change you (I assume). If a person finds it almost impossible to willingly change theirself, it's completely absurd to think someone else can change that person. No amount of bitching makes a man be someone he's not. THAT is precisely how most "X's" are formed. You either love someone at face value - or you don't. There can be no "if" in that equation - and it goes both ways.I said that to my ex one time, and got flamed really hard for it.