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I think we need a picture of this girl
 

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I was in OP's boat once.



Then it sank. Dam thick chicks.
 

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Many of us carry a few extra pounds, but there's a huge difference between a little chubby and morbidly obese. IMO it takes a distinct level of psychological trauma for a person to become morbidly obese. In other words, I think it's associated with mental illness. If you haven't recognized it yet it's only because you don't know her well enough to see it yet.

There is a reason the overwhelming majority of normal people don't date morbidly obese people, and it's not because we're shallow or selfish.
 

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Morbidly obese and beautiful face are not things I have ever heard at the same time before. To say someone is so overweight they are going to die from it.. that's a bold statement. Usually someone of that caliber of weight is going to also have a puffy face and 1+ extra chins. In other words, if she dropped 300lbs, you wouldn't even know who the **** she was anymore.

Seeing as your a gym rat, I gotta feeling your definition of morbid is a little different than the rest of us. Give me an idea of what you would guess her height and weight to be.
 

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A few of you want pictures... As all of you may know by now, girls are FANTASTIC at taking pictures of themselves at certain angles to make themselves look prettier or slimmer. So past the face, there is really not much I can give you.

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Actually, I'm going to stop while I'm ahead. I guess I'm just going to friendzone the girl. I may sleep with her to see how that goes, but I suppose we'll go from there. If it works, I may change my mind.

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Morbidly obese and beautiful face are not things I have ever heard at the same time before. To say someone is so overweight they are going to die from it.. that's a bold statement. Usually someone of that caliber of weight is going to also have a puffy face and 1+ extra chins. In other words, if she dropped 300lbs, you wouldn't even know who the **** she was anymore.

Seeing as your a gym rat, I gotta feeling your definition of morbid is a little different than the rest of us. Give me an idea of what you would guess her height and weight to be.

Maybe 35-40%, and a slight possiblity of 45%.
 

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I would not call 35-40 morbidly obese by any means. 40 is unattractive, but not morbidly obese. 45 is getting there.
35%+ or 100lbs over recommended body weight.
 

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I don't know how old you are but age has a lot to do with it. if you guys are young and she looks like that then she will probably struggle in the later years to keep the weight down. a low motivated person will only get worse till it is too late. if she is older AKA 27-30 and she looks like that with low motivation than I would say her weight gain has been gradual and probably not have a real hard time sliming down or even staying the same shape with some exercise. now that I am in my 30's I will say staying in shape is tough and I was thin up until I was 28 so just think for the future boss.

also girls tend to gain weight in a relationship.
 

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I could maybe see 35% if she had a BEAUTIFUL face and awesome personality. Otherwise nothing over 30, or maybe even 25
 

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I don't know how old you are but age has a lot to do with it. if you guys are young and she looks like that then she will probably struggle in the later years to keep the weight down. a low motivated person will only get worse till it is too late. if she is older AKA 27-30 and she looks like that with low motivation than I would say her weight gain has been gradual and probably not have a real hard time sliming down or even staying the same shape with some exercise. now that I am in my 30's I will say staying in shape is tough and I was thin up until I was 28 so just think for the future boss.

also girls tend to gain weight in a relationship.
She's 19, I'm 23.
 

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Honestly man anything 35 and under isn't a no-go. If you can sit down and think about it and like her enough, give it a shot. When you go on dates, ask if she wants to go for a walk in the park, or play a sport, or something of the like, it works, and if she questions it at any point, just say you like physical activity and enjoy staying in shape, when a chick hears that, they feel obligated to meet your level. I wouldn't shoot her down over a few extra pounds...now if when she walked it looked like she was doing the wave...I'd pass all day. It's all about providing motivation, you don't know what her situation is, maybe stress from school, parent issues? Who knows...just find out if there is a cause to it, and lift her up a bit...not physically though LOL.
 
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