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I am having an existential crisis here.

I moved into a house with my sister, best friend, and another friend who I am not as close to. The rental lease is under my sister, best friend, and I, so we basically rent the other room to this guy.

Ever since we moved three weeks ago, he has had people over almost every day.

The problem is that he hangs out with them in the kitchen, or in the patio which my room faces. most of the people he invites are friends of mine as well, but they come over to smoke with him, because they cant smoke in their own place. I dont have anything against smoking, but I would rather my house not become a smokers paradise.

Is there a way of telling this guy not to bring people over all the time without sounding like an asshole? How would you guys handle this situation.

I just dont want to seem like the asshole roommate that doesnt allow people to come over, cause I enjoy company, just not every day.
 

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"Dude, I really don't want to sound like an asshole, but can we cool it on having other people over for a bit? I like having them over, but they have been over every day for a while now."

Or go for a no smoking in the house rule.
 

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smoke with them and you'll cease to give a **** because now you're all friends and the world is a beautiful and happy place and you love everybody
 

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Kill roommate. Profit.




Or this I guess:

"Dude, I really don't want to sound like an asshole, but can we cool it on having other people over for a bit? I like having them over, but they have been over every day for a while now."

Or go for a no smoking in the house rule.

This is probably the best approach though:

smoke with them and you'll cease to give a **** because now you're all friends and the world is a beautiful and happy place and you love everybody
 

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I was stressing idk why, but I did what Austin said lmao. Lets see how it goes.

I just have had terrible experiences with roommates and neighbors before. I dont want a repeat
 
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bump for outcome
 

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Be a asshole. I learned a long time ago that it's much better for other people to be pissed off than it is for me to be pissed off.
 

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ehh, things calmed down a bit. He had another party last weekend, things seemed to be pretty calm, so I left with some friends to get some food, when I came back he had 10 more people over, and a friend of his and him were yelling outside, and just as I pulled in the neighbor comes out yelling that his kids were trying to sleep (it was 12.00 am on a Saturday)
That was the 4th complaint from neighbors on things he did. So I sent my roommates a text that we needed to set some rules up because I dont want to get kicked out of the house. And they have been following the rules pretty well so far.
 
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