It's clear your not ready to purhcase. You need to do some more homework. You need to establish your budget and goals.
When I bought my patriots there were no trick flow. It was an easy decision for me as I've already had their product on other cars and had a good experience. To be honest I'd probably still get the patriot today over the Trick Flow.
Whoever said the TF isn't that much more must not know pricing. You can get cams and the patriots for the price of the TF's.
But regardless if you have the budget to do a nice ported 4v head with cams of course that will be better. You need to figure how much money your going to throw at it. AND...if you have the budget for the 4v stuff then I would just do a blower first, hands down.