It was just a thought I came up with on a whim. I could probably draw it out in paint if you'd like. You'd basically run a lead off of the clutch pedal switch into the 86 or 85 pin of the relay and run a ground wire from the other (85 or 86, whichever you didn't use). You'd run the 12v power lead from the battery for your nitrous into pin 30 and then you'd run a wire from pin 87a to whatever switch setup you're using to turn your nitrous on/off. I think the mod 6 uses a 12v trigger for the 2-step also, so you'd just wire pin 87 into the mod 6 for the 2-step.
When the clutch is depressed the 2-step is energized and the nitrous is de-energized.. When the clutch is released, the 2-step de-energizes and the nitrous energizes. This allows you to use both functions on the same relay.
I can draw out a wiring diagram, but I need to know what switches/fail-safes you're using in your nitrous system as well.